Paying tribute to fallen service members

While our nation has raised sacred monuments to fallen service members, honoring their memory can also be deeply personal. The memory of a service member’s legacy lives on through the stories we tell, the pride we carry, and the work we continue in their name. This article offers meaningful ways to reflect and carry forward the values they held dear.

Remember together
Whether your loved one wanted to serve their country, pursue new opportunities, or learn more about the world around them, remembering why they answered the call is a respectful way to reflect on their best qualities.

Host a gathering with comrades, friends, and family to share stories of your loved one. Taking time to bring everyone together and share stories is a cathartic way to learn about the impact your loved one had on others.

As you set the scene with their photo, memorabilia, and favorite refreshments and music, think about how you can create an event that they would’ve enjoyed.

Display your pride
If your community has a veteran banner program, consider applying for your service member. You can also commission a banner of your own or create a shadow box for a more personal tribute.

A shadow box can include photos, ribbons and cords, medals, insignia, challenge coins, squadron patches, etc.

You can set out your keepsakes year-round or during military holidays.

Continue the mission
Volunteering is a great way to pay homage to your hero’s service and meet others who may share similar experiences.

Here are a few federally sponsored groups along with organizations that support Gold Star families:

Air Force Auxiliary
American Gold Star Mothers
Army Volunteer Corps
Coast Guard Auxiliary
Navy-Marine Relief Society
Snowball Express (Gary Sinise Foundation)
Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS)
Veterans Affairs

Of course, if your loved one was passionate about a specific topic, volunteering for local organizations is still a wonderful way to give back in their honor.

Look for different groups that support athletics, mental health, family and social services, arts/education, nature and animals, or whatever captures your loved one’s interests.

You can also consider working for or donating to charities that support veterans in need. There are veteran assistance programs at the local, county, state, and national level that benefit from additional help.

You would be in good company – according to the National Conference on Citizenship, when compared to non-veterans, veterans are more likely to volunteer, donate to charities, vote, and form community bonds.

We know that remembering your loved one’s service is not limited to a single moment or holiday – it’s a lifelong tribute expressed through community, storytelling, and purpose.

In honoring your loved one, your efforts will ensure their legacy remains, and your community will benefit from a renewed sense of connection and commitment to others.

Source:

2021 Veterans Civic Health Index

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